Warning signs of a lady who wants only your money, not commitment:
_Verbal Cues:_
1. Constantly talks about financial security
2. Asks about your income or wealth
3. Expects expensive gifts or outings
4. Uses phrases like "treat me right"
5. Discusses financial benefits of relationship
_Action Cues:_
1. Only initiates contact when needing financial help
2. Spends lavishly, expecting you to pay
3. Doesn't contribute financially
4. Uses guilt or emotional manipulation
5. Prioritizes material possessions
_Emotional Cues:_
1. Lack of emotional vulnerability
2. Doesn't show interest in your feelings
3. Prioritizes financial gain over connection
4. Displays possessiveness or control
5. Emotional unavailability
_Behavioral Patterns:_
1. Has history of financially dependent relationships
2. Uses social media to showcase luxury lifestyle
3. Constantly seeks upgrades or expensive items
4. Avoids discussing long-term plans
5. Flirts with others for financial gain
_Red Flags:_
1. Asks for money or financial favors early on
2. Has outstanding debts or financial troubles
3. Uses manipulative or coercive tactics
4. Disappears when financial support stops
5. Multiple concurrent relationships for financial gain
_Biblical Perspective:_
1. "Love of money is a root of evil." (1 Timothy 6:10)
2. "Do not be yoked with unbelievers." (2 Corinthians 6:14)
3. "Seek first the kingdom of God." (Matthew 6:33)
4. "Godliness with contentment is great gain." (1 Timothy 6:6)
5. "Wise financial stewardship." (Proverbs 22:7)
_Protect Yourself:_
1. Set clear financial boundaries
2. Prioritize emotional connection
3. Evaluate her values and priorities
4. Watch for inconsistencies
5. Seek counsel from trusted friends or mentors
_Remember:_
1. Your worth isn't defined by financial wealth.
2. Emotional connection matters.
3. Mutual respect is essential.
4. God's plan prioritizes love and commitment.
5. Prioritize your emotional and spiritual well-being.
