Monday, November 29, 2021

Special Edition: Sourcing For Additional Income Come 2022?? This Post is For You.


The world is generally operating on a tough financial economy and Nigeria is somehow worse off.  In order to beat the game and escape the heat of the current financial problems, smart individuals and budding entrepreneurs have began looking within for ways to create more wealth aside the normal 8 - 5 day time job. 

Thursday, September 9, 2021

Eschew Envy, Embrace Contentment and Mind Your Business.


Have you ever heard of the saying that goes "minding your business is a full time business". Envy is an age long ill feeling of jealousy, covetousness, dissatisfaction, inadequacy, illicit ambitions and all its associated demons... And the father of them is unhealthy comparison and rivalry. 
The Bible teaches us in  Proverbs 14:30; "A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones." ... Proverbs 23:17-18; "Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD.

Friday, May 28, 2021

Marriage Realities From An African Context


Marriages in Nigeria and most parts of Africa are sustained by women. You can argue this with your village deity. Women in general, put up with a lot of bullshit just to make their marriages work. From childhood they have been taught that a wise woman keeps her home. In order to keep their homes, they end up enduring a lot of ill-treatment. 

Find any woman who has been with a man for donkey years and ask her if she would love to marry that same man over again in her next life. Majority would say no. This brings us to the point that most marriages are endurance marriages not happy marriages. Unfortunately, we are told that marital success is about duration. 

A successful marriage isn't about duration but happiness. If two people spend five years together, happily and add immense value to each other; if they decide to break up without fighting about it, their marriage can be rated as successful. Spending eternity together in sorrow isn't the idea of success to me. It is what you do in the marriage that counts not how long. 

Sunday, May 23, 2021

Thinking Of Getting Married Someday? Here Are Three Ways Being Happily Married Will Make You A Better Person..

Marriage especially when done right is not just a good thing but a full packaged blessing. Everyone desires to be married and be happy in it and it is more than important to us children of God because it was initiated and instituted by Our Heavenly Father from the creation of man to fulfill His divine plan for mankind and our earthly mandate. 

However, the very many challenges that besiege marriages of our generation, many of which ending up in divorce, makes it less and less attractive to so many people including members of the body of Christ. 

Wednesday, May 12, 2021



Good morning (or whatever time of the day it is in your region of residence). 
 The Lord put it as a burden in my heart to say this to someone here this morning so PLEASE REPEAT AFTER ME AND NEVER STOP PROCLAIMING THESE WORDS OF SELF LOVE AND AFFIRMATION TO YOUR SELF.... 

Thursday, April 29, 2021

The testimony of the Cross


Christians all over the world recently commemorated and celebrated the triumphant death and resurrection of Our Lord Jesus Christ which secured our Victory over Satan and all the entire arsenal of hell and their agents. Therefore we the Children of God,  called and consecrated for his kingdom purpose are living life from the victory of the Cross and it numerous testimonies that it brought to all who believe according to the Word of God in His scriptures tells us in John 3:16 which says that for God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life and 1 John 5:4 which says that everyone born of God overcomes the world, this is the victory that overcomes the world even our faith. So let's share a few of the major testimonies, the victory of the death of Christ Jesus brought for believers:

Wednesday, April 28, 2021

Every Single Guy Needs to Reads This


A must read for Every single guy 

"'"For all these guys that think by proposing to a lady you are awarding her ticket to heaven, you better have a rethink.

I was just on my own sipping my malt as a gentleman wey I be, I saw over 10 guys walked in, each in a white T-shirt with the inscription "And Charles Proposed To Dinma". Immediately they came into the public relaxation arena they took covers like assassin laying siege for their will-be victim. The way they positioned themselves at every corner of the drinking spot caught the attention of many who came for evening drink-out.

Meanwhile one of the guys (who I predicted as the chief actor) was putting on a jean trouser and a jean shirt with a color matched faze-cap. This dude sat at the centre of the arena unlike the minor actors who hid themselves at the corners. The guy man demanded a bottle of Heineken and was sipping it more gentler than myself. Checking his wrist watch at more frequent intervals he sighted the expected guests. At this point he adjusted on his seat, changed his posture and composure like that of an army General who is about to dish out orders.

Surging majestically into the arena were three damsels in whom the "construction" skills of God were made manifest. As they were drawing closer I could feel the rise in heartbeat of the husband to be. Immediately they got to the table where the guy man was seated, the gorgeously dressed face-capped dude in a slow motion stood up, removed his cap, unbuttoned his shirt, reached out to a small box containing an unknown content, kneeled down more slowly like a sinful man who accidentally finds himself in the presence of God. At once the minor actors ran out from their hiding corners and surrounded the proposer and the "proposee" singing a heart-touching song of congratulations. What a well rehearsed drama!

Saturday, April 17, 2021

Dear God Am I in a Waiting Room... Alone

Have you ever been asked to wait and sit still for a really long time and you just didn't find it boring but annoying and like a total waste of time. More so when it becomes a spiritual exercise and experience and it feels like despite all of God's unfailing promises to us in His Word,  nothing seems to be happening for you in a very long time.  

Tell me about it and I will cry you a river myself because I have very well been there. 







Life just seems like this revolving .. BIG waiting room... Like a bottomless pit. 

Has it ever felt that way for you?

I can completely relate with you.

Understanding the Unique Differences Between The Needs of A Man and A Woman

Intrinsically, the males and females are designed uniquely, their wants defer greatly. It is the understanding of these unique differences in them that brings about a rewarding friendship, union or marriage. When their unique differences are blended harmoniously, it gives God glory. We need to understand these differences God created in males and females.

Furthermore, when we know about our differences in the way males and females think, act and respond, we will hardly have quarrels in interpersonal and intrapersonal relationships with friends, or in male-female relationships and even marriages. In this way we will work cooperatively in fulfilling God`s purposes, and putting the devil into shame.
We will be looking at five distinct differences between the desires of males and females.

Tuesday, April 13, 2021

God's standards is His undiluted Word (Scriptures)

You see that spiritual nonsense someone posted aboveπŸ‘†πŸ‘†, this is what the Bible has to say πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

Health is Wealth...

Every morning we are born again🌻🌻🌻

What we do today is what matters most.

Making changes in our habits makes changes in our lives!



Saturday, April 10, 2021

How do I tell him no sex before marriage

The future and destiny of your marriage is too important and sacrosanct not to discuss the issue of premarital sex before hand and take and agreeable stand on it. 

Let’s talk about sex baby! If you don’t know where that line is from, please kneel down next time to greet me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ (just joking!) But seriously, can we talk about sex? Or more importantly, can we talk about how to avoid having sex as a singleton? Maybe you’ve been thinking “I don’t want to have sex before marriage; what do I do?” Here’s some practical help.

Are You The Value Added Woman/Wife (VAW)

No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious.

What made a man work for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? 


'My man does not respect me' 

It is because you are a no Value- Added-Woman (VAW)