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Showing posts with label Marriage and Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage and Relationships. Show all posts

Sunday, February 19, 2023

Hey Guys! New Video Update

Good afternoon y'all. Hope today met you well?

It's my pleasure to introduce to you all my YouTube Channel and first YouTube video ✌️. 

Click the link and check it out below πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

Vlog Intro

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Saturday, February 18, 2023

As we go to the polls next weekend.

Let's get it right this time around Nigeria.

*Use your vote wisely:*


*#30, 000 minimum wage, no governor went to the supreme court to ensure implementation.


*Local Govt. No governor went to the supreme court to enforce autonomy.


*Non payment of salaries and pension no governor went to the supreme court.


*ASUU Strike for 8 months no Governor went to the supreme court.


*Fuel scarcity...no supreme court.


*Electricity hike; no supreme court.


*Bad Roads....no supreme court order.


*Unemployment.... No supreme court.


*Poverty....no supreme court order.


*Heightened inflation, no supreme court order.


*COVID-19 lockdown which lasted for months, even palliatives ceased/denied, no governor went to the supreme court.


*Now!! No physical cash to buy votes...they remember that the masses are suffering.*


*Ask yourself.... are these govenors really working for your interest????*


*February 25th is a day of liberation By God's grace.*

Thursday, February 9, 2023

The new found metal in chemistry.

 


A New Metal has been Added to Chemistry


Name: WOMAN

Symbol: WM

Atomic mass: Light when first found... tends to get heavier with time.


PHYSICAL PROPERTIES 


- Boils at any time

- Can freeze at any time

- Melts if treated with love

- Very Bitter if Mishandled


CHEMICAL PROPERTIES


- Very Reactive

- Highly Unstable in moods

- Possesses Strong Affinity towards Gold, Silver, Diamond, Platinum, Credit cards, Debit cards & Cheque books

- Money Reducing Agent.


OCCURRENCE 


Mostly found in front of the Mirror.


It's highly flammable and volatile when mixed with mother in-laws.


It has mixed properties when seated with parents. 


 Very harmful to you if she sees you with any element similar to itself!


Only scientists will understand .


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Tuesday, February 7, 2023

**THE THING WITH BAD HABITS**


Right from my school days, everyone who's been around me for a reasonable amount of time will testify to the fact that I chew gum a lot. 


Not necessarily that I love it but I just do.


I developed that urge and habit in my school days because I wasn't one who was given to coffee and the likes in order to have lengthier study hours and so the next resort I had was to rely on chewing gum in order to remain focused and alert.


With time the repeated acts of chewing gum unconsciously became a habit. A bad one at that.😬


Everyone around me complained but who sai. Old habits never die hard... Or do they 🀷


To make matters worse I don't chew the gum with relish sef. If you see the way I chew it, you too will be annoyed 😩. 


I chew gum in such a crass manner with my mouth sounding like a typewriter every one minute 🀣.


You wouldn't believe that even on my wedding day I came to the church chewing the gum that I had deliberately saved for that day. 


My husband noticed my mouth whining and because he had come to know me with it like everyone else, he knew I had gum in my mouth and quickly ordered me to spit it out before our wedding service starts πŸ˜‚.

Tuesday, January 17, 2023

The circle of life

No matter how long it lives, the Greatest Lion will eventually die miserably. That's the world.


At their Peak, they rule, chase other animals, catch, devour, gulp and leave their crumbs for hyenas. But age comes fast.


The old Lion can't hunt, can't kill or defend itself. It roams and roars until it runs out of luck. It will be cornered by the hyenas, nibbled at and eaten alive by them. They won't even let it die before it is dismembered.


Life is short. Power is ephemeral. Physical beauty is short-lived, I have seen it in lions. I have seen it in old people. Everyone who lives long enough will become weak and very vulnerable at some point.


Therefore, let us be humble. Help the sick, the weak, the vulnerable and most importantly never forget that we will leave the stage one day.

Words on Marble

 ***WORDS OF ELDERS***



1. “Beware of the naked person who offers you clothes! Camouflaged murderers


2. “When one’s goat get missing, the aroma of a neighbor’s soup get suspicious”. 🀐


3. “The future belongs to the Risk takers, Not the Comfort seekers!"πŸ€”


4. “A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple!"πŸ‘«


5. “The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain!"πŸ˜•


6. “Be careful who you trust! Salt and Sugar are both white!"πŸ™πŸš


7. “Kindness is like butter, it works best when you spread it around!"πŸ˜‰


8. “The walls don’t only have ears, they now see!"πŸ‘€πŸ‘€


9. “Sometimes, you have to play the role of a fool to fool the fools who think they are fooling you!"😁

Staying True To One's Self



How can you have your wedding without "professional makeup" or without breaking the bank?


How can you write this exam without "any form of assistance"?


How can you get married without "testing the car you want to buy first"?


How can you graduate from the university without ever tasting alcohol, drugs or going clubbing?


These and many more are the unending voices in our heads compelling us to conform to certain so called societal norms that we are often better off without especially in the long run.


I recently had a heart -to-heart with my 5-year old where he seriously queried and disapproved of my wedding picture hanging on the wall of the sitting room for the singular reason that I put on so much facial make up in that picture and so in his eyes I am no longer the person in the picture as I look like someone else, whereas he knows that mummy (which is me) wears little or no facial makeup on most days.

Sunday, January 15, 2023

2023 in practical implementation


Happy Sunday guys!


For those who are still holidaying, the year has started in earnest. Imagine 15+ days off the calendar already. What did you say is your new year resolution and goal again?... You may need to look yourself in the mirror and repeat that aloud to yourself again with a more serious tone.


As for me this my omugwo period is one of sober reflection and re-strategizing especially regarding my being very intentional about creating a passive income that will with time grow to become more steady than my 9 - 5.

Friday, December 30, 2022

Every Married Woman Needs To Hear This!!!


Dear married but unhappy and unfulfilled, I have come to give you unsolicited advice πŸ₯΄

I want to address the women in particular as usual. 

You see ehn, marriage is beautiful but you can be in it and feel so sad, left out, and bitter if you don't look out for yourself. 

How can you do that?

πŸ“Œ Self-Love. This means having a high regard for your well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others.

Self-love gives you the courage to be assertive, make decisions, and set boundaries in your lives.

Here are some of the benefits of self-love: Increased self-esteem. Self-love is bound up with self-esteem – which is vital for good mental health.

So please, love yourself so much. Be selfish. Put yourself first before anyone. If you don't, you won't even have any love to give. 

My children once asked me who I love the most in the family and I responded "ME". I love myself more than all of you.

πŸ“Œ Self-Care. Practice good self-care. You will love yourself more when you take better care of your basic needs. People high in self-care nourish themselves daily through healthy activities, like sound nutrition, exercise, proper sleep, intimacy, and healthy social interactions.

Buy that hair, bag, shoes, or anything you love to own and can afford without looking back. Don't be stingy with yourself. Some women dedicate so much to their children and spouse while they look haggard. 

Clean up yourself. Your skin, your looks, your smell, and your hair should be in order and you don't have to break the banks to get that done.

ONE PERSON YOU MUST NEVER MEET IN YOUR LIFE.

BY REV FUNKE FELIX ADEJUMO.

There is one person you must never meet in your life, you can meet other people but you must never meet that one person and that person is the person you should have become.

I read in a book sometime ago, that many years ago, Billy Graham was preaching and he is one of the most holiest man in America, but while he was preaching those days, he will be missing his note, if he wants to call Genesis, he will call the book of Daniel, his wife noticed this so after he was done preaching, the wife told him that he was missing lines while he was preaching and the man replied and told her that he suddenly noticed a lady in the audience and that was the lady that refused to marry him because she said I didn't have a future, so immediately the wife stood up and walked straight to the lady, she greeted the lady and said "Thank you for saying no to my husband, because if you didn't say no, I won't be enjoying what am enjoying right now..

Thursday, December 29, 2022

The happiest woman alive


The happiest women* today are not the married ones, neither are they the single ones.

They ain't even those with the most  expensive apparels or gadgets.

They're not the ones with great income or influential backgrounds.

They are not the ones with many degrees bagged from prestigious institutions both locally and Internationally.

The happiest women are the ones who have discovered themselves and are living their lives in total alignment to their purpose and self discovery. 

This set of women don't get bullied or cheaply blackmailed because they don't need your validation. 

They made a deliberate choice to love themselves despite what comes their way. They are not greedy but satisfied and contented with what they can make happen. 

Women who don't play the blame game nor act the victim playlet.

 Their self-esteem is intact with a good sense of self worth. You can't stop them because  they have moved past mediocrity and intimidation. They are not sentimental freaks because they have conquered their anger, fears and bitterness.  These are women who have chosen to leave their past behind and take on the future like the warriors they are

No! you can't threaten them with status because they realized on time, that personal achievement needs no "Title" to be attained!

They realized that they are responsible for their own happiness. 

They are women who have chosen to be defined by virtue rather than status

They DON'T drag POSITIONS with men either because they know that a woman was not born to do what a man can do but she was created to do WHAT A MAN CANNOT DO!

Monday, December 12, 2022

An Interesting Read on Pregnancy and Motherhood



Did You Know???

That when pregnant, the cells of the baby migrate into the mothers bloodstream and then circle back into the baby, it’s called “fetal-maternal microchimerism”.⁠


For 41 weeks, the cells circulate and merge backwards and forwards, and after the baby is born, many of these cells stay in the mother’s body, leaving a permanent imprint in the mothers tissues, bones, brain, and skin, and often stay there for decades. Every single child a mother has afterwards will leave a similar imprint on her body, too.


Even if a pregnancy doesn't go to full term or if you have an abortion, these cells still migrate into your bloodstream. Research has shown that if a mother's heart is injured, fetal cells will rush to the site of the injury and change into different types of cells that specialize in mending the heart.


The baby helps repair the mother, while the mother builds the baby.

Don't Judge a Situation You Haven't Passed Through



❤️Single ladies should not judge and set standards for married women till they get married because they may become everything they once criticized


❤️I cannot fight a side chick. If I discover my husband cheats on me, I will just leave the house. My dear , Wait till you get there.


❤️How can a married woman look so unkept. Once I marry, I will be looking so beautiful for my husband. My dear wait till you get there 


❤️How can a married woman deny her man s*x ? When I marry I will be having fun with my husband 24 hours. My dear wait till you get there 

Women Please Stop Shaming CS Mothers

 


CS may be difficult, very expensive and sometimes have prolonged healing process and time that can last as much as weeks from all the vaccines administered during the process and so on but one thing is sure, it is a divine life saver for both child and mother especially in cases of difficult or impossible vaginal delivery. 


Don't be foolish and play with your life and that of an innocent baby (ies) that you have suffered for nine whole months to carry with high expectations just because the only Scripture you know off heart and your own misconstrued interpretation of Hebrew women is vaginal delivery only. The statistics of foolish women is no longer funny so refuse to join them.


You the naive family, friend or confused Man of God who is teaching this erroneous doctrine of heresy concerning Hebrew women and leading mothers and babies to an early avoidable grave please in the name of Jesus that you claim to teach this satanic teaching STOP IT IN JESUS NAME. AMEN and please just stop mocking a CS mother. You are not God neither are you better than her because you had a vaginal delivery. Nobody is perfect, tides can also turn anytime and our body make ups are not all the same. Most people don't have the willpower to withstand societal and family pressures.

Saturday, November 26, 2022

Where your treasure is there also lies your strength and your heart ❤️



Two rich men living in the same neighbourhood were, one day, robbed of everything they had.


Now left with nothing, one was so depressed, he jumped into the lagoon and drowned. The other left the neighbourhood. Nobody saw him again until months later when he returned. This time, richer than he was before.


When his neighbours saw him, they were astonished. Curiously, they asked, "How did you do that?" He told them, "When those robbers robbed me, they thought they took away all that I had but they didn't know that all that I had was inside me. I don't give the world anything that I have not, first, given myself."


True success is first replicable.


The difference between the two rich men is the understanding that success is not on the things we achieve but on who we become as a result of achieving them.


 No cutting corners.


You have to first, become before you manifest. That's what makes success easily replicable.

Monday, November 14, 2022

WHAT LOVE FROM A HUSBAND MEANS TO WOMEN


Are you a Christian husband and you are looking for ways to show your equally Christian wife how much love and appreciation you have for her?

Well below are a few inexhaustible tips for you to make that possible and make your wife really feel loved 😍.

1. Showing pride in the marriage, not hiding her 


2. Spending quality time with her 


3. Responding to her calls and texts 


4. Involving her in making decisions 


5. Protecting her from his family and friends 


6. Being faithful to her; not just sexually but also in his communication with other women 


7. Expressing sexual desire for her to make her feel wanted 

Wednesday, November 9, 2022

IT IS NOT A SIN TO MARRY EARLY.



IT IS NOT A SIN TO MARRY EARLY. 


INFACT IT IS A VERY HUGE BLESSING AND PRIVILEGE FROM GOD.


IT IS NOT WRONG TO MARRY EARLY.


DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30


There is a current trend among our brothers and uncles of today. It is quite unfortunate that we focus on the minor at the detriment of the major. 


Don't make the mistakes some of our Fathers,  Senior Brothers and uncles made. Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait till you have hundreds of millions!

Don't wait till you have your own mansion or conglomerate!

 

 Have kids early so that you can grow with them and that you may be there for them while you still have energy to throw. 


Grow with your kids and succeed with

your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. 


You might still not succeed at your target year. So, start your life early, with consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: _When I was 25, I was talking about making billions before I marry.


Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can I really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children. 


The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.


Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..


All you need is not money, but rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life and largely on Jesus who is your source not the mundane things. 


Check all the Fathers of Faith.

Tuesday, November 8, 2022

The Real Journey To Sound Health



Do You Feel Any Of These When You Wake Up In The Mornings 🀷

Tired 😩

Grumpy 😣

Irritated😞

Restlessness🀷

Low EnergyπŸ™

SleepyπŸ˜ͺ😴

Exhausted πŸ˜ͺ

Angry😠


If so, this post is for you.


The best indication of whether you're well-rested or not is how you feel when you wake up in the morning and how you feel throughout the day.


Sleep is a powerful predictor of all-cause mortality. If you get less than five hours of sleep per night, your risk of dying increases by about 12%.


Let's talk about what can happen if you don't get good sleep:


1. Your Cognitive Function will be affected

Your focus and concentration decreases. You will have brain fog. You might also experience low memory and lack of creativity.

Saturday, July 23, 2022

Failure... The surest and shortest route to succeeding in life.


 For many people, the word 'failure' comes with a negative connotation of hopelessness. In fact, today's society particularly the youths don't understand the importance of patience in the journey of life and the necessity of failure on one's road to success. All everyone is after is overnight and sudden burst to success, wealth, fame and so on without realizing the roles time, maturity, chance, mistakes and failure play in forming a whole and completely successful individual.

Even the corporate world needs to understand and appreciate the importance of failure in building both the business structure into a formidable enterprise and the workers/employees (especially young interns) into a strong force that is almost impossible to sink in the global economy. 

Monday, June 27, 2022

Who do you listen to?🀷 The Faith or Fear Determinant.

 

There is something powerful about the voice of whom we listen to especially on a regular basis. The answer to this question may be the panacea of the many problems that bedevil our society... From the least person to the most influential person.
The person or persons you listen to especially as a heavenly conscious child of God is capable of making or marring your destiny or the part of it that is the subject matter of a topic. 

Imagine being advised by someone who is wayward, has no spiritual compass, doesn't believe in Jesus Christ and the Gospel on matters that concern your spiritual lifestyle.

Imagine being advised by an unrepentant/repeating divorcee who is not willing to make his or her marriage work on how to build your home and live peacefully with your spouse.