Reasons Why You Shouldn't Watch Porn as a Christian and Godly Couple

You can’t claim to be be a Christian couple, and watching po*n to learn sex. No. You can’t learn sex in its holy sanctity as intended by the God you claim to live and serve from depraved demonic expressions. You can’t learn to please God from the devil. Porn is demonic; full stop! 

It is the one of the worst perversion of sex. You’re destroying yourself and your marriage, and that’s unfaithfulness in every possible and impossible way of the highest order. Both to God and your partner.

Often times, we attribute unfaithfulness to one partner cheating on the other. However, watching porn together as a couple or engaging in sexual acts that include a third party, is unfaithfulness to God, because a godly marriage consist of three people: you, your partner and God. 

More like fighting a Godly battle with the devil's strategy or armour.

So in all you do, you must be faithful to Jesus. Because I'm aware of the conversation around porn helping people with their sexual lives, but again I ask, how do you learn how to be clean from a dirty pig?

So how can you a Christian, is watching two or more satanic agents of end time mass destruction committing fornication in such an unrealistic, shameless and distorted way, to learn sex in all its sacredness for implementation in your marriage? This is highly morally inconsistent according to biblical precepts. You can’t save your marriage with the soiled hands of sin.

Porn destroys any of its participant; in fact, I daresay that if you watch porn together as a couple, you will most likely cheat on each other, because it boils down to lack of bridling dirty and amoral desires of lust. Porn is not sex. It is a perverted and skewed marketable model of sex. Just pure evil.

There’s an argument being made up for couples who might not have a great sex life, but I believe the solution as Christians can be pretty simpler and Godlier than porn... Have deep rooted and vulnerable conversations in that regard with each other and seek help through counseling of need be. 

Yes, prioritize your partner’s pleasure by all means. But please be patient; let your spiritual fruits be expressed even during sex. But if it’s much more complicated, quickly see a sex therapist. At the end, we suffer all these because we’ve fed our minds with perversions of all sorts, so much so that they now justify our need to fulfill unclean lustful desires. If we all had obeyed God and gotten married as virgins and chaste people, we’d have less of these issues.

Lastly, contrary to popular opinion: what you do in your bedroom matters even if you’re a married couple. There are lines not to cross even as husband and wife according to Scriptures. However, if you are labouring under this addiction, and I hope that you take steps to get delivered and reformed, and cooperate with God so that He can help you overcome the need to improve your marriage with sin (porn).

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