Are you in a Relationship?
Read this and Know where you belong.
1) SOLE-PROPRIETORship
This one is what I call "na only you waka come" relationship
The love sustaining this relationship is usually one sided
You are the Lover and the Lovee
You beg them to call you,
You beg them to tell you they love you.
You offend them, you beg, they offend you, you beg.
You beg for their attention.
You beg for their affection,
They treat you as an option but you don't mind
This Relationship is like a ticking time bomb, it never lasts and always ends in heart break to be felt by only one party.
2) SITUATIONship.
This is a Relationship that resembles a prison sentence with hard labor,
It is a Relationship where you keep asking yourself if you are dating an onion or you are engaged to a relative of Adolf Hitler.
One week, One trouble.
All your friends have settled quarrels between the both of you to the point no body takes you guys serious anymore.
Every Relationship has ups and downs, but a Situationship has downs and ups.
This type of Relationship attracts Pity (not envy) from People, you keep hearing "you People should take it easy oh" "have you prayed well?" "are you sure?"
This Relationship usually translates into an abusive relationship.
3) FORNICATIONship
Remove sex and monetary compensation from this Relationship, and you'd discover nothing else is holding it.
It's all about her Body and his Money.
The young Lady gives her body,
The young Man buys her weave-on or clothing items in return.
Majority of Relationships fall here.
But a true Christian, a true Son/Daughter of God will never operate this type of Relationship because God detests fornication
Items that aid this relationship to continue from year to year without any major problems include Postinor 2, Ampiclox Beecham, Schweppes, and then ABORTION comes to the rescue when the previous items malfunction.
Las Las, when the young Man is tired and sees a better looking lady or the lady sees someone who can spend more the fornicationship will end.
Sometimes though it ends in Marriage, but such Marriages have faulty foundations already.
4) CONFUSIONship
Any Relationship where this questions keep coming up;
"what are we?"
"what are we doing?"
"where are we going?",
Let me help you answer the questions.
The both of you people are pencils in the hand of the Creator, the both of you people are pounding yam, and the both of you people are going to no-where...
People who call themselves matured Adults in a Relationship with no defined identity, no defined destination, just "let us see how it goes" are nothing but confused adults.
When People ask you your relationship status you reply "it is complicated" or "we are just taking things slowly" 🤣🤣🤣
He or she calls you "sweetheart" when you are alone and introduces you as "my friend" when you are in Public, another word for this type of confusionship is what I call "Undercover relationship" .
5) REALationship
This is the REAL Deal, hence the name REALationship.
There is a DESTINATION in mind, that is Marriage.
The MOTIVE is genuine Love, sincere Commitment, true Companionship and Intimacy.
The Love is usually MUTUAL and reciprocated
This type of Relationship involves three People, not two. The COUPLE and GOD.
COMMUNICATION helps both parties to understand each other daily.
This kind Relationship attracts envy, you'll keep hearing "you are lucky oh" "I wish I was in your shoes", and USUALLY ends up in BLISSFUL MARRIAGES
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You can not be in the wrong Ship and expect to get to the right Destination
Have a rethink today.
So ask yourself if you are truly in a Relationship, is It a REALationship?
We will marry well in Jesus' name 🙏🏽
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