Behaviours My Igbo Sisters should stop tolerating from their husbands

 

My dear African (Igbo) women in particular.

Stop accepting disrespectful behaviours from your Igbo men. These men understand what it takes to be a man when dealing with a white women. 

I lived over 20 good years in Africa and 9 years in Europe and can categorically tell you that;

An African man knows how to come home after work when dealing with a white woman. 

An African (Igbo) man knows not to yell when dealing with a white woman. 

An African (Igbo) man knows how to vacuum the house when dealing with a white woman. 

An African (Igbo) man knows how to cook when dealing with a white woman. 

An African man knows that he shouldn’t ch£@t when dealing with a white woman. They forget polygamy 😆 

An African (Igbo) man knows how to take the children and dogs for a walk when dealing with a white woman. 

An African (Igbo) man knows how to buy flowers 💐 and make a date reservation when dealing with a white woman. 

An African man doesn't forget important events like birthday, graduation, children's needs when dealing with a white woman.

An African (Igbo) man is smart enough to differentiate between bare minimum and princess treatment when dealing with a white woman. 

Their n@rcissistic tendencies only germinate when dealing with you. That's why they think "they are the price"

They truly understand partnership when dealing with a white woman. 

The king's mentality or grandiose self only heightened when dealing with you.

It could be that your worth as a woman wasn't pronounced to you as a young woman, but I'm here to let you know that you are worth more than the bare minimum. 

You're valuable, you're priceless, you're unique and deserve a love and partnership with someone who sees your values from day one. 

You deserve a man who uplifts you. Not someone who sees you as below him. You deserve someone who supports you in building a family. You deserve someone willing to love you as loud as you deserve. 

That African man isn't dųmb, he just selects who to be lovely to. Stop accepting the bare minimum. 

You deserve a real partnership and not slav£ry. If he has to depl£te you, he's not loving you. If he has to dr@in you, he's not loving you. 

If he has to watch you cook, clean, sxxx, and feed the children while he plays video games, he's not loving you.

Love doesn't drain, it nourishes, uplifts, and takes you closer to God.

You deserve love, the kind of love, Christ has for the church. Ephesians 5:25

✍️ ©️ Hephzibah Anietoh Speaks 

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