Watch the Video Ministration of My Husband, Pastor John Anietoh.
Sunday, April 3, 2022
Saturday, April 2, 2022
Here are few Godly tips on how to calm your husband down.
There are days our men come back worn out and maybe displeased due to one thing or the other that happened during the course of his day. Even without him saying it out loud, he hopes and depends on us to apply our feminine sweetness to take all the nastiness away from their beings.
But many at times, we don't even know this and even when we do, we don't know how.
Below are a few useful tips for us wives to help out awesome husbands feel better after such a long day.
1. MAKE LOVE TO HIM
Sex has a way of relaxing a man. You will change his mood when you make love to him, especially if you are the one who seduces him and initiates it
2. DON'T MAKE THE HOME A WARZONE
If coming home to you is coming home to yet another argument and fight where you explode and turn everything into an issue, he will dread coming home and it hurts when home is a place to run away from, not to run to
3. ASK HIM HOW HE IS
Most women want the husband to ask them "How was your day?", "How did you sleep?" "How are you?" yet they rarely ask the husband these. If these questions make you feel cared for, your husband also wants to feel cared for
4. ORGANIZE HIS LIFE
A lot of men can be disorganized, especially when they are going through a lot in life or have a lot on their mind. This chaos in their system, dressing, schedule or environment can lead to more unease on their mind. When you help him clear the clutter and attend to some of his needs without him asking, he will think better
Be the willing and available partner in your marriage.
This 👆 is what it looks like when you're in a relationship and want it to work but your partner isn't willing to take part.
For a relationship to work, both parties must be willing to change and want to change. Otherwise, you will be considered unequally yoked with someone and will begin to resemble the image below if you try to do all of the work on your own.
Tuesday, March 29, 2022
Protecting Your Heart 💜 as a Child of God.
In today's world of numerous dating apps and endless break-ups, heartaches and so on, a lot of people are weary when it comes to dating and matters of the heart.
As a child of God, because of our precious and unique identity in Christ and the Holy Spirit, a lot more than carefulness is required of us both spiritually and physically before we start catching feelings and all what not.
The Bible tells us in the book of Proverbs 4:23 to "guard our hearts with all diligence for out of it flows out the issues of life" and that "wisdom is profitable to direct - Ecclesiastes 10:10.
That is why as a Child of God it is over important that we cross check with the One who holds the manual for your life before giving your heart to your intended special person and saying"I DO".
Friday, March 25, 2022
Appreciation is the key 🗝️ that unlocks the door of Increase
This picture below was the circulated photo of a vulture waiting for a starving Sudanese girl to die so it can feast on her. It was taken by Kevin Carter, a prolific photojournalist, during the fa mine of 1993 in Sudan. This photo later won Kevin the Pulitzer prize for an 'exceptional' caption.
Thursday, March 24, 2022
As a Child of God, How Do You Respond Under The Heat of The Faith
Many of us have different threshold levels when it comes to trials and temptations which is why Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ gives us Scriptures to hold on to and confess in those trying times for maximum strength and assured victory.
Some are cast your burdens on Him for He cares for you.
His yoke is easy and His burden is light
Many are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivers them of them all
And so on.....
Below is also a very inspiring story to help encourage you that how you react and respond during those trying period really matters a lot and that is why we as children of God must remain steadfast in the faith.
Potatoes, Eggs, and Coffee Beans
Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.
A short Story.... Failure Is Part of Success.
Have you ever failed before???? I guess we all have at some point in life...
Here's a short Story to encourage someone going through one right now and is not having it easy..
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As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”
Monday, March 21, 2022
Consistency and Persistence Truly Pays... A Short Story
How To Earn The Respect of People Around You.
How To Respect Yourself So That People Can Respect You Too.
❤️ Stop looking for who is not looking for you. Minding Your Business is a Full Time Job.. Get Busy With What Puts Food on Your Table.
❤️ Stop begging.
❤️ Stop saying more than is necessary.
❤️ When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
❤️ Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
❤️ Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't visit u as well.
❤️ Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
❤️ Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
❤️ Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
❤️ Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
Saturday, March 19, 2022
WAIT! YOUR JOSEPH IS COMING.
Waiting has never been easy for any man. It's one of the most difficult things (not many things compare) to do in life......"WAIT".
-Ask Sarah in the Bible, she got frustrated of waiting, she had to force her husband to give the world Ishmael. The world is still paying dearly for that singular act of impatience till tomorrow.😭
-Ask King Saul, he got frustrated he went ahead to do the sacrifice that will seal his doom shamefully forever.
-Ask the children of Israel, they wearied of waiting for Moses and made for themselves idols to their ruin.
ASK RACHAEL.... (my focus this morning).
Rachael was beloved and industrious. She was beautiful and inspiring. Because of her, Jacob set a marriage standard that no man has been able to replicate... Rachel was cheated by her own dad in the name of custom. .... and when she finally claimed her place... her womb was shut.
Sunday, March 13, 2022
10 THINGS YOU MUST DISCUSS IN COURTSHIP.
1. WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO LIVE AFTER WEDDING? Compulsory! So the guy won't drag you back to his father's house or squat with a friend. Discuss the type of apartment: a room, room and parlour, a mini flat, 2 bedroom flat, 3 bedroom, duplex, complex, whatever, talk, thoroughly. Don't forget to discuss how rent will be paid. If he has built his house and you are moving in, excellent.
2. WILL YOU HAVE BABIES IMMEDIATELY OR YOU WILL WAIT? Discuss thoroughly. If you will wait, find out the best family planning method that will suit your body. Not all injections and pills are suitable for you. Withdrawal is not advisable for first time sex on honeymoon likewise condom. First sex should be done with abandon and also get used to each other's bodies especially as virgins. Singles who are sexually active right now are digging their marital grave. If you are already having sex like mad and taking family planning pills as a single lady, it is a big shame and a disgrace to womanhood. Marry with dignity. Save sex till your wedding night.
3. HOW WILL BILLS BE PAID?
Who will pay the rent, take care of bills and groceries? Is it the man? The woman or both of you? At how many percentage if it is a joint responsibility? 50/50? 80/20? 60/40? Discuss.
4. WILL ANY FAMILY MEMBER LIVE WITH YOU AFTER WEDDING? Discuss. Who and who will live with you? Why? For how long? Can you cope having a family live with you immediately after honey moon? Can your type of accommodation allow such? It is not advisable for the opposite sex sibling to live with you after honey moon in a room apartment. It is more dangerous if it is the wife's very mature younger sister. Use your head!
Sunday, February 6, 2022
Imperfect me serving a perfect God
The other day, I was spending time with a friend. This friend calls herself a Christian, but doesn't always act like it, because some days she's on fire for the Lord, and other days life's struggles seem to get the best of her.
So, as our eyes met, I really wanted to say something about it to her, but decided to just let the Lord speak to her heart, knowing nothing I could say could ever possibly have the impact that the Lord making Himself real in her heart would make.
So I prayed with her. And after some time passed, I winked at her.... and walked away from the mirror!
#iamamasterpieceinthemaking
#GodIsStillWorkingOnMe
Sunday, January 16, 2022
18 Mistakes Most Wives Make.
Monday, January 10, 2022
New Year Friends.... Welcome To The Greatest Year So Far... 2022
Have a sparkling New Year!
New adventures are around the corner. ...
Make way for 2022!
I said this 365 days ago, but happy New Year!
May the new year bless you with health, wealth, and happiness.
Out with the old, in with the new! ...
Here's hoping you make the most of 2022!
I'm super excited for this new year of exceeding Grace, favour, blessings, love, upliftment and the Good Life in Christ. We shall definitely have reasons to testify and celebrate.
Monday, November 29, 2021
Special Edition: Sourcing For Additional Income Come 2022?? This Post is For You.
The world is generally operating on a tough financial economy and Nigeria is somehow worse off. In order to beat the game and escape the heat of the current financial problems, smart individuals and budding entrepreneurs have began looking within for ways to create more wealth aside the normal 8 - 5 day time job.
Friday, May 28, 2021
Marriage Realities From An African Context
Wednesday, May 12, 2021
YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH
Wednesday, April 28, 2021
Every Single Guy Needs to Reads This
A must read for Every single guy
"'"For all these guys that think by proposing to a lady you are awarding her ticket to heaven, you better have a rethink.
I was just on my own sipping my malt as a gentleman wey I be, I saw over 10 guys walked in, each in a white T-shirt with the inscription "And Charles Proposed To Dinma". Immediately they came into the public relaxation arena they took covers like assassin laying siege for their will-be victim. The way they positioned themselves at every corner of the drinking spot caught the attention of many who came for evening drink-out.
Meanwhile one of the guys (who I predicted as the chief actor) was putting on a jean trouser and a jean shirt with a color matched faze-cap. This dude sat at the centre of the arena unlike the minor actors who hid themselves at the corners. The guy man demanded a bottle of Heineken and was sipping it more gentler than myself. Checking his wrist watch at more frequent intervals he sighted the expected guests. At this point he adjusted on his seat, changed his posture and composure like that of an army General who is about to dish out orders.
Surging majestically into the arena were three damsels in whom the "construction" skills of God were made manifest. As they were drawing closer I could feel the rise in heartbeat of the husband to be. Immediately they got to the table where the guy man was seated, the gorgeously dressed face-capped dude in a slow motion stood up, removed his cap, unbuttoned his shirt, reached out to a small box containing an unknown content, kneeled down more slowly like a sinful man who accidentally finds himself in the presence of God. At once the minor actors ran out from their hiding corners and surrounded the proposer and the "proposee" singing a heart-touching song of congratulations. What a well rehearsed drama!
Saturday, April 17, 2021
Dear God Am I in a Waiting Room... Alone
WHEN WILL MY NAME GET CALLED?
WHEN WILL I GET MY BREAKTHROUGH?
WHEN WILL I FIND OUT WHAT IS NEXT IN MY LIFE?
WHEN WILL I GET MARRIED?
WHEN WILL I GET PREGNANT?
WHEN WILL MY MARRIAGE IMPROVE?!
Life just seems like this revolving .. BIG waiting room... Like a bottomless pit.
Has it ever felt that way for you?
I can completely relate with you.