Monday, March 21, 2022
Consistency and Persistence Truly Pays... A Short Story
Saturday, March 19, 2022
WAIT! YOUR JOSEPH IS COMING.
Waiting has never been easy for any man. It's one of the most difficult things (not many things compare) to do in life......"WAIT".
-Ask Sarah in the Bible, she got frustrated of waiting, she had to force her husband to give the world Ishmael. The world is still paying dearly for that singular act of impatience till tomorrow.ðŸ˜
-Ask King Saul, he got frustrated he went ahead to do the sacrifice that will seal his doom shamefully forever.
-Ask the children of Israel, they wearied of waiting for Moses and made for themselves idols to their ruin.
ASK RACHAEL.... (my focus this morning).
Rachael was beloved and industrious. She was beautiful and inspiring. Because of her, Jacob set a marriage standard that no man has been able to replicate... Rachel was cheated by her own dad in the name of custom. .... and when she finally claimed her place... her womb was shut.
Sunday, March 13, 2022
10 THINGS YOU MUST DISCUSS IN COURTSHIP.
1. WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO LIVE AFTER WEDDING? Compulsory! So the guy won't drag you back to his father's house or squat with a friend. Discuss the type of apartment: a room, room and parlour, a mini flat, 2 bedroom flat, 3 bedroom, duplex, complex, whatever, talk, thoroughly. Don't forget to discuss how rent will be paid. If he has built his house and you are moving in, excellent.
2. WILL YOU HAVE BABIES IMMEDIATELY OR YOU WILL WAIT? Discuss thoroughly. If you will wait, find out the best family planning method that will suit your body. Not all injections and pills are suitable for you. Withdrawal is not advisable for first time sex on honeymoon likewise condom. First sex should be done with abandon and also get used to each other's bodies especially as virgins. Singles who are sexually active right now are digging their marital grave. If you are already having sex like mad and taking family planning pills as a single lady, it is a big shame and a disgrace to womanhood. Marry with dignity. Save sex till your wedding night.
3. HOW WILL BILLS BE PAID?
Who will pay the rent, take care of bills and groceries? Is it the man? The woman or both of you? At how many percentage if it is a joint responsibility? 50/50? 80/20? 60/40? Discuss.
4. WILL ANY FAMILY MEMBER LIVE WITH YOU AFTER WEDDING? Discuss. Who and who will live with you? Why? For how long? Can you cope having a family live with you immediately after honey moon? Can your type of accommodation allow such? It is not advisable for the opposite sex sibling to live with you after honey moon in a room apartment. It is more dangerous if it is the wife's very mature younger sister. Use your head!
Sunday, February 6, 2022
Imperfect me serving a perfect God
The other day, I was spending time with a friend. This friend calls herself a Christian, but doesn't always act like it, because some days she's on fire for the Lord, and other days life's struggles seem to get the best of her.
So, as our eyes met, I really wanted to say something about it to her, but decided to just let the Lord speak to her heart, knowing nothing I could say could ever possibly have the impact that the Lord making Himself real in her heart would make.
So I prayed with her. And after some time passed, I winked at her.... and walked away from the mirror!
#iamamasterpieceinthemaking
#GodIsStillWorkingOnMe
Sunday, January 16, 2022
18 Mistakes Most Wives Make.
Monday, November 29, 2021
Special Edition: Sourcing For Additional Income Come 2022?? This Post is For You.
The world is generally operating on a tough financial economy and Nigeria is somehow worse off. In order to beat the game and escape the heat of the current financial problems, smart individuals and budding entrepreneurs have began looking within for ways to create more wealth aside the normal 8 - 5 day time job.
Friday, May 28, 2021
Marriage Realities From An African Context
Sunday, May 23, 2021
Thinking Of Getting Married Someday? Here Are Three Ways Being Happily Married Will Make You A Better Person..
Saturday, April 17, 2021
Understanding the Unique Differences Between The Needs of A Man and A Woman
Saturday, April 10, 2021
How do I tell him no sex before marriage
The future and destiny of your marriage is too important and sacrosanct not to discuss the issue of premarital sex before hand and take and agreeable stand on it.
Let’s talk about sex baby! If you don’t know where that line is from, please kneel down next time to greet me 😂😂 (just joking!) But seriously, can we talk about sex? Or more importantly, can we talk about how to avoid having sex as a singleton? Maybe you’ve been thinking “I don’t want to have sex before marriage; what do I do?” Here’s some practical help.
Are You The Value Added Woman/Wife (VAW)
Thursday, August 27, 2020
Who is a husband supposed to submit to?
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Ten Common Lies Our Men Tell
Tuesday, August 13, 2019
A Proverbs 31 Wife
A wife is a woman lawfully and legally married to a man. Every wife is prima facie a woman but not every woman is a wife. The Holy Bible which is the everyday living manual for the Children of God on all aspects of life whether spiritual or physical (including marriage affairs) has spelt out detailed instructions on how marriage as a whole should work if it is to function properly and succeed, the roles and responsibilities of both the husband and wife and how a wife if she is to build up her home and bring favour as well as God's blessings on her husband and entire household must conduct herself.
According to the Bible which is the living word of God, a wife is the only person God calls a helper (or a helpmeet) to another individual (who must be her husband) after the Holy Spirit ( who Himself is God and the third person of the Holy Trinity).
Wednesday, August 7, 2019
Who are your friends???
I guess the age-long sayings that birds of the same feather flock together and show me your friends and I will tell you who you are were both borne out of the wise realization that one's friends have a lot to contribute to the actualization or abortion of a man's greatness and destiny fulfilment in life. Friends have a very strong influence in each other's lives. They can either be a ladder to climb to success in life or not just pull one down but also bury one's destiny forever.
Saturday, August 3, 2019
Do you want to succeed and be fulfilled in life? Then you must avoid these road pitfalls...
Who doesn't want to succeed and be fulfilled in life? Every living soul wants to even he who is dead lazy. We all desire to finish running our individual races in life with that satisfaction that yes we succeeded and that our success is not just a testimony for those behind but also a lasting legacy for them.
However, since no man is an island and no single tree makes a forest; then we all need people to assist us on our journey to the top. That very journey must be traveled with caution as there would be certain ups and downs, rough paths here and there will we make this sensitive journey to fulfilment in life and some of them are.
Monday, July 22, 2019
Why are most women attracted to tall guys?
Monday, June 24, 2019
Bounced Back after a loss
Tuesday, April 30, 2019
This and That about marriage
Saturday, April 27, 2019
Coping with your husband's ego.
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To my understanding, your ego is that protective wall we build over time as we grow into matured adults over our hearts, personality and self esteem. Thank God for 'egos' for it helps us to build strong, healthy and well-guarded personalities until...